5 Ways to Survive Forced Gaiety

5 Ways to Survive Forced Gaiety

As I was wishing a colleague my usual happy wishes for this time of year – she responded, “Yeah, ‘tis the season for forced gaiety.” I laughed. But her comment really caused me to pause and reflect on the upcoming holiday season. During the holidays, we may be...
Three Qualities Successful Couples Hold

Three Qualities Successful Couples Hold

Couples often compliment me on my knack for dealing with their financial disagreements. Some have called me their marriage counselor – which I am not since I don’t have those credentials. Because each person’s experience with money is different, it’s...
Ending Your Relationship with Their Stuff

Ending Your Relationship with Their Stuff

After your spouse passes away, time may move very slowly and be a blur. Before you know it, a year passes. You look around your house, and it’s as if your spouse is still alive. You haven’t gotten rid of clothing, personal grooming items, things relating to their...
Learn to Say “No” in Retirement

Learn to Say “No” in Retirement

It never fails. Before retirement, we have grandiose ideas of how much we will accomplish when we no longer work. We have on our list all the home projects we couldn’t get to when we were working. We have a list of friends and family members we will visit more...