Sometimes Silence Is Best

Sometimes Silence Is Best

When your friend’s spouse dies, the last thing they want to hear is that you know what they are going through. Actually, you don’t. Losing a spouse is different than losing a parent. It’s different than losing a pet. Even if your spouse died, your experience...
Is Social Media Harming Your Relationship?

Is Social Media Harming Your Relationship?

In my financial planning practice, I work with individuals who are in a relationship at all stages: …those getting ready to tie the knot, whether for the first time or after a divorce; … newlyweds, new parents, empty-nesters, and retirees; …those contemplating a...
Reach out to a widow/widower

Reach out to a widow/widower

“It’s the little things you miss the most,” my client, whose spouse passed away three years ago, shared with me. “Life goes on, but it’s different.” Some people, when their spouse passes away, gain a freedom they’ve never experienced. At times, they feel guilty...
Relationships During Retirement

Relationships During Retirement

When helping individuals and couples plan for retirement, one of the key things we discuss is their personal relationships. For example, some people envision planning a family gathering annually with their adult kids and grandchildren. In order to estimate how much...