Unexpected Relationship Changes from Divorce

Unexpected Relationship Changes from Divorce

January is known as “divorce month” because most people begin the divorce process at this time. It’s after the holidays and family gatherings. Kids are back in school. It’s the beginning of a new year. Many people believe a divorce will resolve all their issues. But...
What to Do at Dreaded Holiday Gatherings

What to Do at Dreaded Holiday Gatherings

With Thanksgiving almost behind us, we’ll officially enter the holiday season. I know … I know …  stores have been pushing us into the holiday spirit since November 1st. And, Mariah Carey has officially proclaimed it’s time. Some of you may already have your home...
Questions to Ask Your Spouse About Retirement

Questions to Ask Your Spouse About Retirement

As a CFP®, I help couples with retirement planning. Before calculating if they’ve saved enough money, I ask them what they want to do in retirement. Most couples haven’t really addressed what they would do when work is no longer a factor. They each may have their own...
Sometimes Silence Is Best

Sometimes Silence Is Best

When your friend’s spouse dies, the last thing they want to hear is that you know what they are going through. Actually, you don’t. Losing a spouse is different than losing a parent. It’s different than losing a pet. Even if your spouse died, your experience...