Have you read “The Five Love Languages” by Dr. Gary Chapman?
Dr. Chapman identified five ways people show love. Couples often have
different love languages – a primary reason for misunderstandings and problems.
The five love languages are
words of affirmation (expressing love verbally with compliments)
acts of service (taking action to help your partner)
receiving gifts (giving meaningful gifts)
quality time (giving your partner undivided attention)
physical touch (expressing love with hugs)
While we may want our loved one to show us love in all those ways, each individual has a way they prefer.
Do you know your love language?
Most females prefer acts of service. Mainly because they need help with chores and taking care of the kids.
Most males prefer physical touch (no explanation needed).
“The purpose of speaking the love languages is not to get your own desires met but to make your spouse feel genuinely loved and cared for.” – Dr. Gary Chapman
Do you know which love language your partner prefers?
When you know your love language and your partner’s love language, you can build a healthy relationship – as long as you both put forth the communication effort.
Why do I stress strong relationships?
When disagreements about money creep into your relationship, knowing how to communicate with each other while maintaining respect can help you find a solution more quickly.
This book will not solve your financial issues but will help you communicate with your partner.
Since this book was published, there are many ways to learn more. There’s an audiobook, website, podcast, and newsletter.
The concepts in this book can apply to all your relationships with family and friends.
(Update to original post from June 8, 2015)
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Niv Persaud, CFP®, CDFA®, RICP®, is a Managing Director at Transition Planning & Guidance, LLC. Life is more than money. It’s about living the lifestyle you want and can afford. For that reason, Niv consults with clients on money, life, and work. Her approach capitalizes on techniques she learned throughout her career, including as a management consultant, executive recruiter, and financial advisor. Her services include developing comprehensive financial plans, divorce financial reviews, and retirement plans. Niv actively gives back to her community through her volunteer efforts. She believes in living life to the fullest by cherishing friendships, enjoying the beauty of nature and laughing often — even at herself. Her favorite quote is by Erma Bombeck, “When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left and could say ‘I used everything you gave me.’”