In Stephen R. Covey’s book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People®, the seventh habit is to sharpen the saw.
This phrase means taking time to renew yourself physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
When was the last time you sharpened your saw?
If you haven’t sharpened your saw in a while, then it’s time to plan a solo trip.
If it sounds too daunting, consider taking an overnight or a half-day trip.
Drive to a nearby town if you don’t want to fly by yourself.
If you live in a large city, then book a night at a nice hotel.
Order room service or take-out from a local restaurant if you don’t want to eat by yourself.
Here are some ideas if you don’t know what to do by yourself:
sign up for a service at the hotel’s spa
find a nearby park and go for a long walk
sit poolside with a book you’ve been meaning to read
catch up on much-needed sleep
rent movies and lie in bed all day
Notice all suggestions exclude social media and interactions with others.
This time is your time to regain balance in your life – to renew yourself.
It’s your time to stop doing for others and do for yourself.
If it’s your first time on a solo trip, it may be awkward initially.
But eventually, you’ll enjoy your own company.
Make 2026 your best year ever by finding time for Y-O-U!
(Update to original post from April 6, 2023)
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Niv Persaud, CFP®, CDFA®, RICP®, is a Managing Director at Transition Planning & Guidance, LLC. Life is more than money. It’s about living the lifestyle you want and can afford. For that reason, Niv consults with clients on money, life, and work. Her approach capitalizes on techniques she learned throughout her career, including as a management consultant, executive recruiter, and financial advisor. Her services include developing comprehensive financial plans, divorce financial reviews, and retirement plans. Niv actively gives back to her community through her volunteer efforts. She believes in living life to the fullest by cherishing friendships, enjoying the beauty of nature and laughing often — even at herself. Her favorite quote is by Erma Bombeck, “When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left and could say ‘I used everything you gave me.’”